Better than free

What’s valuable when everything is free: Immediacy, personalization, interpretation, authenticity, accessibility, embodiment, patronage, findability. kk

Forward

In the novels, Joe Pike has bright red arrows tattooed on his arms, pointing forward. We don’t stop, we don’t slow down, we don’t revisit past decisions, we don’t second guess. pmarca on ferriss

Maximize deep work

Develop the ability to focus without distraction on cognitive demanding tasks.Don’t multitask.Avoid distractions.Block out time for deep work.Eliminate shallow obligations. Deep work

How to innovate

What would you choose?A – $1M bottom line to your company, 100% guaranteedB – $1B , 1% chance Does your boss want you to pick choice A? Would your boss let you pick choice B? Astro Teller

The resistance

Writing isn’t hard. What’s hard is sitting down to write.Resistance is the urge to procrastinate, delay, wait, the belief that you’re not ready.Resistance is a sign you are doing something of significance.Resistance never goes away: “Henry Fonda was still throwing up before each stage performance, even when he was seventy-five”. The war of art

Execution

Developing a strategy is easy but that executing that strategy is much harder, especially if that requires a significant change in human behavior. Most people are just trying to survive battling that whirlwind and don’t have the time or energy to do something new. 4DX

Turn pro

We all are haunted by the visions of the person we could be but aren’t.Turn pro: show up every day. show up no matter what. stay on the job all day.‘I write only when inspiration strikes. Fortunately, it strikes every morning at nine o’clock sharp’. The war of art

Zero based thinking

Is there anything I’m doing today that, knowing what I now know, I wouldn’t get into today, if I had to do it over? Is there anything you are doing because you are stuck in a recurrent scheme for which you can no longer find the why? Brian Tracy / Erika Lemay

Serenity prayer

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.

Alignment

What am I not saying that needs to be said? What am I saying that’s not being heard? What’s being said that I’m not hearing? Reboot

Secondary gain

How have I been complicit in creating the conditions I say I don’t want? What benefit do I get from the conditions I say I don’t want? Reboot

Keep your identity small

You can have a fruitful discussion about a topic only if it doesn’t engage the identities of any of the participants. The more labels you have for yourself, the dumber they make you. PG

The 2nd arrow

If a person is struck by an arrow, is it painful? If the person is struck by a second arrow, is it even more painful?In life, we can’t always control the first arrow. However, the second arrow is our reaction to the first. This second arrow is optional. More zen stories

Hell Yeah or No

If you feel anything less than “hell yeah!” about something, say no. Refuse almost everything. Do almost nothing. But the things you do, do them all the way. Why would you ever choose to be with someone who is not excited to be with you? Sivers post/book ; Mark Manson post

Life is short

If you ask yourself what you spend your time on that’s bullshit, you probably already know the answer. Unnecessary meetings, pointless disputes, bureaucracy, posturing, dealing with other people’s mistakes, traffic jams, addictive but unrewarding pastimes.If you’re a freelancer or a small company, you can fire or avoid toxic customers.Things we like tend to become moreContinue reading “Life is short”

Tomorrow

If you could do tomorrow over again, would you? Most of us live programmed lives. Tomorrow is set, finished, done, and you haven’t even started it yet. And we accept that as part of the deal in setting goals and reaching them. But what about the tomorrow thirty days from now? Or a year? IfContinue reading “Tomorrow”

Goals vs. systems

Goal-oriented people exist in a state of continuous pre-success failure at best, and permanent failure at worst if things never work out. Systems people succeed every time they apply their systems, in the sense that they did what they intended to do. James Clear’s post/book

Ignore sunk costs

What happened yesterday already happened. It’s a gift and an asset from your previous self. You don’t have to accept if you don’t want to. It’s harder to change careers if you spent years in school getting a degree. But the correct approach is to ignore it, and change if the new thing will haveContinue reading “Ignore sunk costs”

Bird by bird

“Thirty years ago my older brother, who was ten years old at the time, was trying to get a report on birds written that he’d had three months to write. It was due the next day. We were out at our family cabin in Bolinas, and he was at the kitchen table close to tears,Continue reading “Bird by bird”

When to start

Actually, as you’ve probably guessed, the best time to start was last year. The second best time to start is right now. Seth

The world’s worst boss

If you had a manager that talked to you the way you talked to you, you’d quit. If you had a boss that wasted as much of your time as you do, they’d fire her. If an organization developed its employees as poorly as you are developing yourself, it would soon go under. Seth

Maker’s schedule

The manager’s schedule is for bosses. It’s embodied in the traditional appointment book, with each day cut into one hour intervals. You can block off several hours for a single task if you need to, but by default you change what you’re doing every hour. But there’s another way of using time that’s common amongContinue reading “Maker’s schedule”

Anger

A young farmer was padding up the river. He was in a hurry. As he looked ahead, he spied another vessel, heading rapidly downstream toward his boat. This vessel seemed to be making every effort to hit him. He rowed furiously to get out of the way, but it didn’t seem to help. He yelledContinue reading “Anger”

Meditations

When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself: the people I deal with today will be meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous and surly. They are like this because they can’t tell good from evil. But I have seen the beauty of good, and the ugliness of evil, and have recognized that the wrongdoer hasContinue reading “Meditations”

Tao

Stop thinking, and end your problems.What difference between yes and no?What difference between success and failure?Must you value what others value,avoid what others avoid?How ridiculous! Other people are excited,as though they were at a parade.I alone don’t care,I alone am expressionless,like an infant before it can smile. Other people have what they need;I alone possessContinue reading “Tao”

Investment

Think for a moment that I granted you a right — you can buy 10% of one of your classmate’s earnings for the rest of their lifetime. There’s nothing wrong with getting the highest grades in the class, but that isn’t going to be the quality that sets apart a big winner from the restContinue reading “Investment”